Style your hair a certain way. The key is to subtly find out what it is and then incorporate it into your life. Working on yourself physically is one aspect, but there are other parts like working on your career, relationships, planning for the future, etc. Working on all these things to improve yourself and your relationship are things that your partner will naturally find sexy but are often long-term projects. So you can see that making your partner feel desired by flattering her, complimenting her, showing her how much you appreciate her in a genuine way , being thoughtful, working on yourself and making her feel special by using the Princess Principle is a great way to get her engine going… But… There is one major problem with all of this.