You can ignore most of what you've heard. There is a lot of advice out there, and some good books about how to have better sex. Some people look for their pointers in pornography, or what they call their "online sexual education. Maybe your friends told you a thing or two when you were out drinking, or maybe you picked up some tips in your last relationship. But as a Board Certified Sexologist and a PhD Certified Sex Therapist, I am here to tell you that what you think you know about having great sex is simply not the whole story.
There comes a point when those one night stands and random encounters stop being so fun and exciting, and start wearing on you. Here, experts share the qualities of an incredible sex partner. Consider this your check off list: A great partner is one who is willing to set the stage for honest and loving communication about sex.