At first there was nothing forbidden about it at all — we met, we did the right thing and approached her father for permission, he gave us the green light, preparations for the engagement ceremony were made — everything was perfect. Take a look at my other site: I take my hat off to you blokes for doing that. It was either this or we stop seeing each other altogether. I had to make a serious choice then and there, without even knowing this girl properly, about whether or not I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. I was pretty scared at this point.